[He ran a reassuring hand through Diarmuid's hair, voice much calmer now.]
...it's not wrong, you know. Being angry all the time hurts, I know--but after everything you've dealt with, it's not wrong to feel like that. I was just startled because I...didn't understand. I probably still don't understand everything about what you went through, and maybe I never will entirely. But listen to me, right now--I'll never hold it against you if you decide to hate anything about what happened. I'm the last person that should say 'it's wrong to feel hatred.'
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[He ran a reassuring hand through Diarmuid's hair, voice much calmer now.]
...it's not wrong, you know. Being angry all the time hurts, I know--but after everything you've dealt with, it's not wrong to feel like that. I was just startled because I...didn't understand. I probably still don't understand everything about what you went through, and maybe I never will entirely. But listen to me, right now--I'll never hold it against you if you decide to hate anything about what happened. I'm the last person that should say 'it's wrong to feel hatred.'