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Xion ([personal profile] attheclocktower) wrote in [community profile] animus_network2012-12-28 07:31 pm

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[Well lately has been an utter roller coaster of feelings. To say the least. It'd taken a few days musing (some of those days being distracted by a certain book of notes she'd recieved) to realize that maybe she needed a little help with this.]

So... can anybody tell me about weddings and getting married? Just... different things about it. A friend explained some of it to me but... [A lot of it seemed way over her head.] It was really confusing.

[Maybe hearing a few different thoughts about it would help.]
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[personal profile] justabignobody 2012-12-29 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
[Excuse him while he makes this face at first, because really, where did that come from!? o.O;]
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[personal profile] justabignobody 2012-12-29 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
[Okay, hmm. Give him a moment to find a way to best explain this. One that preferable doesn't go into the religious aspects because well... keep it short and simple, right?]

You could say, a marriage is like a contract. Two people decide and agree to spend the rest of their together, to help and love each other no matter what happens.

There are several aspects to it though. Some people marry for security and things like that. Most ideally they marry for love.

Weddings... are kind of complicated, I guess. They usually involve lots of people... tough, I guess all you really need is some kind of priest or official to make it legal.


[That the kind of thing you were looking for?]
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[personal profile] justabignobody 2012-12-29 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
[...Alright wait. Where had this come from? >.>;;

/most suspicious and overprotective not!bro is just that. :|]
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[personal profile] justabignobody 2012-12-29 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Xion... why are you asking?
justiceinheaven: (The sweetest smile ever.)

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[personal profile] justiceinheaven 2012-12-29 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
um... getting married is when two people who really really love each other decide to move in together
pitiedthefool: (um ⚡ amuse those nine muses)

[private text, fifteen minutes after Nanako's...]

[personal profile] pitiedthefool 2012-12-29 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
...There's a bit more to it than what Nanako said.

But why are you asking in the first place?
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[personal profile] justabignobody 2012-12-29 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
[...Xion. You should know better than to think he'd buy that. >.>

Seriously. He's even switching to video feed. :|]


...Did someone ask you to get married?

[If they did, please tell him you said "No.".

...And tell him their name so he can go and have a long talk with them about that.]
justiceinheaven: (I can take care of myself.)

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[personal profile] justiceinheaven 2012-12-29 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
[Two bitties talking about this sort of thing... this is going to end well.]

that's true i guess thats why brother and rise-chan arent together yet

[...welp.]

but the important thing is they love each other a lot
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[personal profile] justabignobody 2012-12-29 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
[Yes, that's what he's worried about. The frown on his face disappears the moment she replies - thanks the light for small favors - but is replaced with a more curious expression.]

Is somebody else getting married then?
justiceinheaven: (The sweetest smile ever.)

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[personal profile] justiceinheaven 2012-12-29 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
yup

my mom and dad loved each other and that's why i'm here
Edited 2012-12-29 02:45 (UTC)
justiceinheaven: (I can take care of myself.)

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[personal profile] justiceinheaven 2012-12-29 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
well people that love each other also make babies together

[OH GOD SOMEONE STOP THIS.]
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[personal profile] justabignobody 2012-12-29 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
[Because there is no way, he's going to explain that in voice. Because all dat awkward.]

She means that usually getting children is a part of being married.
pitiedthefool: (consider ⚡ when I arrive)

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[personal profile] pitiedthefool 2012-12-29 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
[Very much safer. Hooray occasional poker buddies?]

Congrats to them!

Marriages are a bond that comes from and surpasses dating relationships. Usually they've been dating for a while and are sure they want to spend the rest of their lives together, so they have a wedding which is the act of getting married and the celebration that follows.

The kind of wedding depends on their customs, though.
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[personal profile] justabignobody 2012-12-29 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
[Well, her reluctance to tell him any details doesn't exactly serve to make him less curious about this.]

...Who is 'us'?
pitiedthefool: (sick ⚡ eating us alive)

[not here]

[personal profile] pitiedthefool 2012-12-29 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
[Sob, what do with our little sister figures.]
Edited 2012-12-29 03:00 (UTC)

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