You ever heard the saying, "give 'em enough rope, and they'll hang themselves?" It means that if you just let a person think they can have their way, they'll wind up screwing themselves over. It's like they're doing their work for you, y'know.
[She ruffles America's hair, letting her hand come to rest on his shoulder.]
That's why like, with bullies, you're not supposed to try adn confront 'em, 'cause you just get yourself in trouble. It's better to wait for them to trip over their own shoes. And in the meantime...you shouldn't take responsibility for their actions. That's all they really want, y'know, is to make you feel like trash.
[Of course, that's not her preferred method of doing things. Under normal circumstances she would never condone it, but she's not stupid enough to encourage a small child to rush headfirst into this sort of thing. Kids can be useful. She's seen that already. It's just a matter of finding a way to help them understand things that proves to be difficult.
She moves to wipe his tears away.]
So like, just try to remember, all those bad things you did? Those weren't you. That was the admins. It's not something you have to feel bad about. Make sure you stick with the people that you care about. If you can do that...it might not be right away, but things'll fix themselves up.
[America sniffles a little and tries to collect himself. It sounds sort of like advice England or France might give, except they wouldn't say it like that--the way she says it makes more sense to him, really.
He wouldn't have done any of that if he'd been able to stop himself. He's sure about that.
Still...]
They need to trip faster. It's taking too long. And they're hurting lots of people and it's mean.
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[She ruffles America's hair, letting her hand come to rest on his shoulder.]
That's why like, with bullies, you're not supposed to try adn confront 'em, 'cause you just get yourself in trouble. It's better to wait for them to trip over their own shoes. And in the meantime...you shouldn't take responsibility for their actions. That's all they really want, y'know, is to make you feel like trash.
[Of course, that's not her preferred method of doing things. Under normal circumstances she would never condone it, but she's not stupid enough to encourage a small child to rush headfirst into this sort of thing. Kids can be useful. She's seen that already. It's just a matter of finding a way to help them understand things that proves to be difficult.
She moves to wipe his tears away.]
So like, just try to remember, all those bad things you did? Those weren't you. That was the admins. It's not something you have to feel bad about. Make sure you stick with the people that you care about. If you can do that...it might not be right away, but things'll fix themselves up.
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He wouldn't have done any of that if he'd been able to stop himself. He's sure about that.
Still...]
They need to trip faster. It's taking too long. And they're hurting lots of people and it's mean.