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Xion ([personal profile] attheclocktower) wrote in [community profile] animus_network2012-12-28 07:31 pm

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[Well lately has been an utter roller coaster of feelings. To say the least. It'd taken a few days musing (some of those days being distracted by a certain book of notes she'd recieved) to realize that maybe she needed a little help with this.]

So... can anybody tell me about weddings and getting married? Just... different things about it. A friend explained some of it to me but... [A lot of it seemed way over her head.] It was really confusing.

[Maybe hearing a few different thoughts about it would help.]
tohko_amano: (Delicious)

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[personal profile] tohko_amano 2012-12-29 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, there are tons from the world I come from! Let's see..there's the Western tradition of a white wedding, where the bride wears all white, and there's a custom of throwing rice at the couple just after they're married, and there's a recent custom of wearing wedding bands, and a custom of partying after the wedding..

[Since Tohko is a book girl, she knows about a lot of wedding customs in her world. She'll just type-ramble about all the different ones she knows before moving on to the second part of what Xion said.]

Although..I'm sorry to hear that the people you were with didn't care about love. That must have been terrible.
tohko_amano: (apologetic)

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[personal profile] tohko_amano 2012-12-29 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
Well, they might sound strange, but there are stories and meanings behind why people do it. For example, people throw rice at newlyweds because they want them to be just as fertile as the rice is! Of course, people have also tossed other sorts of grains at the couples, but rice is the one most commonly used.

...And why didn't they think they could? Were they..incapable of feeling emotions?

[Tohko has dealt with people like that before. It was terribly sad..but she was willing to deal with it again if she could help.]
tohko_amano: (puzzled)

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[personal profile] tohko_amano 2012-12-29 07:38 am (UTC)(link)
It is! Although..in my universe, people only live on one world, but there are all sorts of different customs, since people live in different places and have different beliefs and stories. However, in your universe, there are probably a lot of different customs as well, since people live on more than one world.

Well..I'm sorry to hear that. Being like that is pretty terrible..but it's nice that you were able to feel and enjoy your times with your friends!